• Seven(7) Ways to Tell If Your Partner Might Be Manipulative
  • Twelve(12) Reasons Why There’s Orgasm Inequity (And No, It’s Not That Women Are ‘Harder to Please’)
  • Five(5) Reasons to Stop Saying That Women Are ‘Complicated!
  • Ten(10) tips to make your erection stronger
  • Does penis size actually matter?

Seven(7) Ways to Tell If Your Partner Might Be Manipulative

Loading… “I think I do it to distract myself.” I was telling a friend about my newly acquired habit of picking the split ends from my waist-length hair. “From what?” “Anger.” I thought about it. “I’m angry all the time.” “With who?” My eyes darted around the room. I was scared to admit it. “My boyfriend.” I was so petty. The words came flooding back from my subconscious. How could I…

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Twelve(12) Reasons Why There’s Orgasm Inequity (And No, It’s Not That Women Are ‘Harder to Please’)

Loading… I was young when I came to discover masturbation, and I had orgasms long before I knew what they were. Nothing about it seemed complicated. I just rubbed “down there” for a few minutes, and it happened. But later, magazines, comedy routines, and sitcoms taught me that my body – and vaginas in general – were mysterious and complex, often too complex for those without them to figure out….

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Five(5) Reasons to Stop Saying That Women Are ‘Complicated!

Loading… When a friend of mine told me she only dated men because women are too complicated, it stung. I remembered all the times I’d been on the receiving end of this “women are complicated” stereotype. There was those times when I took issue with my ex-partner when he was gaslighting me or not listening, and he’d tell me I was being petty and losing sight of what’s important. There was that…

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Ten(10) tips to make your erection stronger

Loading… The Olympic motto “citius, altius, fortius” translates to “faster, higher, stronger”. For you, this likely bears a striking similarity to the ambitions of your erections. But what triggers your flaccid, dormant male appendage to metamorphose into a firmer, larger and engorged erection? We explain the science behind your erection and how can you weaponise it to make sure the tower keeps rising for the years to come. The science of…

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Does penis size actually matter?

Loading… Does penis size matter? Well, what better way to get an idea of what people you sleep with think about your penis than ask the people you sleep with Aside from the locker room and slightly inappropriate shifty comparisons at the trough, the size of your chap only really starts to matter once you’re in the bedroom – or wherever you choose to do it. And research has shown that around…

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How to tell if a guy or girl likes you on social media

Loading… You may think social media is all about the baby pics, decorative lunches and passive-aggressive promotion of your aspirational lifestyle, but it’s also a hotbed of sexual tension. While most people are happy to read your updates about your daily commute and coo about how woke you are when you link to a piece in the Guardian, there are also plenty out there absolutely gagging for it and, by extension,…

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Is sex getting too complicated?

Loading… Love bites What were love bites actually for other than to let everyone know you were sexually active, of sorts, or merely had a very powerful vacuum cleaner in the house? They weren’t pleasurable to receive, depending on their location you looked like you’d been in some kind of accident and, if we’re honest now, looking back, everyone thought you were lame for having or giving one. Fast forward…

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Ways to deal with regrets as a man!

Loading… Regrets, we’ve had a few. They’re a natural part of the ageing process. We mellow or become more extreme; what seemed important when we were younger becomes irrelevant. As we grow up we’re supposed to become less interested in impressing others or susceptible to peer pressure, and thus less likely to do things we’ll live to regret (or so you’d think). Historically, we’d brood, sleeplessly and alone, over misdemeanours, opportunities…

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Sixteen(16) ways men and women date differently, and first date tips for both

Loading… When it comes to dating, the well-worn phrase “men are from Mars, women are from Venus” rings true. Working as a relationship psychologist and global director of elite introductions agency Berkeley International means I work closely with both sexes to discuss what they look for in a partner, their feelings about dating and thoughts on the dates they have been on. What is abundantly clear is that women and…

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Six(6) Ways to Help People Change

Loading… Often in life, you may find yourself trying to help other people change. Whether you’re acting as a mentor, a parent, or a well-meaning spouse, you hope to exert a positive influence and assist someone in reaching their goals. What’s the best way to do this? If you want to influence other people’s behavior, then you need to develop trust. The core of trust in persuasive interactions is authenticity—the…

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