Dating married women can have severe consequences. I am about to discuss with you the impact of such an act. A woman stepping out on her husband is happening more often today than it did 30 years ago; but just because it is happening more often doesn’t mean you should join the trend.
In Nigeria 44% of married men have an extramarital affair and 32% of married women follow along. Looking at those numbers it’s no mystery why roughly 50% of marriages in Nigeria fail. Also from the start of the marriage the odds are stacked against it lasting for the long term. Add adultery to those odds and you are almost guaranteed failure.
Affairs happen out of purely selfish desires, and not having the ability to look past the instant gratification. If you are one of those men that are thinking of dating married women then you are asking for trouble that you can’t even comprehend.
The first problem you will run into when trying to date a married woman is the fact that she is married meaning one of you will be single while the other is with her husband, and it will stay that way throughout the affair, but she will have to go home to her husband. That may be fine at the beginning, but what happens when you start to have feelings for her! This leads into the next problem.
You’re not a couple! Go ahead and get that out of your head. Your relationship can only go one of two places, she divorces him for you, or the affairs ends with her husband finding out or some other way. Either option is bad for you; because once she leaves him for you, how long do you think it will be before she is stepping out on you? The other option has some many possible scary outcomes that’s it’s hard to think about. Just think what you would like to do the guy you caught sleeping with your wife! It’s fair to say you he wouldn’t want to have a beer with you.
The point is there are plenty of fish in the sea, and dating married woman is simply asking for trouble! Relationships based on lies never work.