People who feel that they are attracted to someone would normally flirt with them. And if you think it is about time that you are ready to flirt with someone, then that only means you are sexually attracted to them and you really like them. However, this is something that comes very easy because it is ordinary to just put yourself out there and immediately start flirting.
But don’t worry; it is normal to feel nervous. The good news is that there are many ways by which you can be braver, confident, and be able to make flirtation successful. The only thing that you have to remember is that whether you are flirting through a chat, text, or in person, you have to make sure that you maintain the balance between expressing and being honest with your feelings, making sure that you keep the person still intrigued.
IF YOU HAVE ZERO OR VERY LITTLE IDEA ABOUT FLIRTING AND YOU NEED HELP, HERE ARE SOME HELPFUL AND GREAT PIECES OF ADVICE YOU CAN’T AFFORD TO IGNORE:
1. FLIRT EFFORTLESSLY
Going to the person you admire or like outright to introduce yourself is so terrifying, let alone having to go up and talk to them. However, you cannot just let that moment pass without doing a single thing.
Flirting can actually be compared to a job interview because of the truism that your best job interview normally happens for the job you don’t necessarily want. If you try to observe, you would notice yourself being effortlessly cute when talking to someone you don’t like or someone you are not attracted to. So, what does this all mean? If the person you like has a wingman, why don’t you hit on the wingman instead? Well, because you tend to be more relaxed and confident in front of the person you actually like while you are talking to the wingman. Just make sure to go easy on it and be subtle, and do not overdo it.
2. FLIRT IN PERSON
When there is no wingman and you just got to do that flirting with that person you like the most, don’t worry, and just muster all the courage to casually talk to the person. Now, first things first: make sure you make an eye contact. You have to look deeply into the person’s eyes and intentionally get caught looking. Throw small glances at the person and continue to do it until they catch you looking at them. When you get the chance to talk, make sure to look into their eyes and hold their gaze.
If you don’t get the chance to really talk, you can smile at the person you like when you pass by. You don’t have to overdo it; just a subtle smile will do the trick. It is also better when you smile with your eyes and not just your mouth. This way, they will see your whole face light up when you smile.
3. START TALKING
You can either introduce yourself or maintain the mystery, especially when you don’t know the Ukrainian women yet. Avoid using the overused, cheesy, and casual lines. Just simply say hi and have a bit of an introduction, so as to make it more effective and less forced. On the other hand, you can also opt not to introduce yourself so as to make knowing yourself a bit of a challenge and make your identity a mystery for a short while. If the other person also likes you, then they will definitely find a way to get to know you.
4. KEEP THE CONVERSATION LIGHT
Make sure that you do not bring up or discuss anything that is too personal when you are talking. As much as possible, do not discuss anything too personal including money, religion, relationships, and many other things. Choose to discuss topics that both of you will be interested in—the ones that are not too personal and will not be a topic for debate or argument. Remember that it is a lot easier to flirt when you are talking about fun and light-hearted topics.