When you have a crush, the first thing you would want to happen is for them to like you back. And finding out that they have feelings for you is more than enough to make you go crazy.
But what if it isn’t the case? What if they only look at you as a friend?
This is the sad part because liking or crushing on someone won’t mean that they feel the same. And it’s not like that it is that easy to approach someone and tell them how you feel. Most of the time, you would even feel shy and hesitant to approach them and talk to them.
So how do you really get your crush to have a crush on you?
DON’T THINK THAT IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO MAKE YOUR CRUSH LIKE YOU. IF YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO GET IT DONE, CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING TIPS.
1. BE YOURSELF
This is the most basic, yet one of the most important rules. You have to be comfortable in your skin, in yourself, in your personality, even with your own imperfections. You should not act like a different person when your crush is around. When your crush sees that you are happy and relaxed, the most they will appreciate you. People will like you for who you are, and not for someone you are pretending to be.
2. GET NOTICED
You won’t get someone to notice you if they do not see you a lot. So what does it mean? It means that you have to be around, but no, do not stalk or follow them wherever they go. This only means that if you get the chance to be present wherever they are present, grab the opportunity. For example, there is an event or a party where both of you are invited, take the chance and be there. This is your chance to get noticed.
3. DON’T HESITATE TO TALK TO THEM
Who says you can’t talk to your crush? Muster all the courage and get up and talk to your crush. There is nothing wrong with a friendly conversation. So, if you get the chance to approach them, don’t let it slip away. Start a small talk and who knows, you might be spending hours enjoying the conversation. This is just you giving them the chance to get to know you.
4. GET INVOLVED IN THE THINGS THAT THEY FIND INTERESTING
If you get an invite to join an activity that your crush finds interesting, go ahead and join. Of course, you must also enjoy the event and have fun. If they see that you also show a genuine interest in the things that they enjoy doing, the more they will appreciate you and your company. They would probably like to have you around next time.
5. DRESS UP NICELY
If getting noticed and impressing your crush is your goal, one of the things you must do is to dress up nicely. You have got nothing to lose if you do this. Of course, it is only imperative that you look your best when your crush is around. Just make sure that you don’t overdo it.
6. SHOW YOUR PERSONALITY
More than the looks, one of the things that make a person attractive is their personality. Your personality is what makes you unique. It’s what makes you, you. There are hundreds and thousands of good-looking people around but what will make you stand out is your personality. So, don’t be afraid to show it. Your quirks are what makes you likable.
7. MAKE THEM JEALOUS
Most of the time, people who are trying to keep their feelings will keep them until they feel a little jealous. Sometimes they won’t even realize that they have feelings until they start feeling jealous. This trick might work for you, too.
8. BE POSITIVE
There is nothing more attractive than a person who exudes positivity and optimism. If you have a positive outlook in life, you will not only get your crush to like, you will also be able to attract more friends. If you are happy to be with, they will enjoy your company and they will also want to be with you all the time.