Worried about confessing love to a crush? Do you fear she will refuse? Here are six steps to fearless confessions.
1. Be Certain
It may be difficult to be certain of someone just after one meeting, as to whether he or she is the one made for you. You need to devote ample amount of time to discover more and more of her positives than the negatives as you move on. The three crucial words of love are meant only for one person so say it out only when your companion for life. Remember, once said, you can not take those words back.
2. Be Genuine.
The other sex is slways apprehensive about his or her companion being truthful and serious about the relationship. You may have to do little things like plan a surprise or make your partner feel special. Either love is confessed over a certain period of time, or expressed with spintaneity, it is very important for your partner to be sure of your sincerity and seriousness of your love for him or her.
3. For Slow-Learners
If you are toi dismal or pathetic to wait till you know she would not take your calls and then, leave a text professing your affaction and love for her. By this you are not presssurizing her to answer you at the spur of the moment.
If you are sure you are in love, then why wait for occasions? Confessions and feelings come out for the partner come our naturally once you are in love. Expressions like “I love you” are then blurted out most often, regardless of situations and locations it is suitable for.
5. Be Well-thought out
If you like it subtle, well-thought out and controlled, then you could plan a surprise maybe dinner with some exotic wines, cuisines and music for confessions though have to be extremely subtle. But do not hesitate and falter. Just say it out. Keep the confession short and simple. Less is always more.
6. Interpreting Reactions
You have finally done the bit.
Congratulations. Oh wait, its time for her to speak out now. Don’t be excited if she says “Thank You” for this is not really the right time to ask her if she loves you too. Relax. She may need time to think about it. Remember her silence doesn’t mean a “YES” for you.
Oh, what uf she say “YES?” What would you do now? don’t be panicky.
This is what you really wanted, right? Now that all is well, do not stop the conversation. It’s not the end of your date. Talk about things to continue the conversation. You could even decide whether to make the relationship public or not.